'RWS' was a well-loved gospel column that ran for 16 years (2002-2018) every Sunday in the Philippine Daily Inquirer's 'Working People' Section. The column featured two reflections on the current gospel from two viewpoints: a laywoman's and a priest's. The reflections demonstrate how gospel values may be applied effortlessly to vitalize relationships and performance in the workplace and life in general.
Friday, January 27, 2012
RWS for January 29
Sunday, April 27, 2008
RWS 283 April 27, 2008, 6th Sunday in Easter
Gospel: John 14: 15-21
16”… And I will ask the Father, and he will give you …the Spirit of truth, which the world cannot accept, because it neither sees nor knows it.”
The truthful worker
By Bishop Precioso D. Cantillas, SDB, DD
Once I asked a personnel manager what would be the desirable traits and qualities he or his company wanted to see in the workers. He answered that truthfulness in words and deeds was among the most desirable ones. But then, I thought to myself, is truthfulness just simply something desirable in a person? Is it not that the human being necessarily searches for the truth and strives to live by it, thus to be truthful is not only like a “second nature” or a habit, albeit desirable in a worker but, that it should be his very nature to conform to the truth?
Yet, you and I know that the reality in our world, in our society and in our very own self is laden with graft and corruption in myriads of forms and in varying degrees. The workplace and the business world likewise are the arena where truthfulness is fiercely challenged by evil and deception. The truthful person or worker has become therefore like a priced commodity with a very limited supply. The truthful worker who is imbued with the “Spirit of truth” which the Father gives and “which the world cannot accept” is becoming very rare in our midst. There is therefore an urgent and great need for forming new truthful workers or transforming the recent crop into desirable ones.
The worker’s correct understanding of the nature of his being a human person could lead him to realize that doing truthfully his job—performing every task required by his work with all honesty in his heart—would give him the satisfaction that he has been true to himself. Moreover, his faith in Jesus and love for Him could strengthen him to be always truthful and would make him feel victorious over those who would choose the different path.
Your truth, my truth…
By Teresa R. Tunay, OCDS
There is no such thing as an “ideal workplace” where nobody fights or disagrees. And when co-workers fight or disagree, the root cause is normally a difference in perceptions. What is truth to one may not be truth to the other. They have varying “truths”, and the situation is aggravated by their refusal to see that the other person could also be right. Both could be well meaning, both respect each other, yet conflicts could arise from a divergence of opinions. When one is forced to give in to the other, bitter feelings result. And when neither concedes, a stalemate occurs, and the work suffers.
This reminds me of the three blind men who were asked “What is an elephant?” The first one, holding the elephant’s tail, said “The elephant is long, hairy and likes to swing about.” The second, stroking its tusk, said, “No! The elephant has no hair; it’s smooth and hard!” The third, hugging the animal’s leg, replied, “The elephant is like a big tree trunk with a funny-feeling bark and no roots!” Are the blind men telling the truth? Of course, yes and no—they’re all right and all wrong, just like when you and your co-worker(s) fight because each of you sees only a part of the “elephant” that is the problematic situation. Neither of you may be blind, but all opponents are myopic, and that’s virtual blindness when it comes to agreeing on the truth.
Conflicts can be avoided, and disagreements can be prevented from escalating into a full-blown intramural warfare. Just by stepping back and out of your nearsighted zone, you can see the bigger picture, and forestall a head-on collision. It’s difficult to step back when you insist you’re the only one right, but it’s not impossible. It’s not impossible to “see Jesus” in your opponent and view his truth in the light of His promise to “give you the Spirit of Truth.” Even when the whole world does not accept it, you will never regret if you do.
RWS 282 April 20, 2008, 5th Sunday in Easter
Gospel: John 14: 1-12
12 Amen, amen, I say to you, whoever believes in me will
do the works that I do, and will do greater ones than these,
because I am going to the Father.
Over the top
By Bishop Precioso D. Cantillas, SDB, DD
Many times we hear it said of us or of some of our friends, “You accomplished five times more than what your predecessor did in the same span of time”. Such very affirming remark could boost the self-image of the person receiving it and would inspire him to even greater heights in his career, work or profession. As they say, ‘knowledge of results is a great motivator”. Receiving praises or awards for one’s great deeds would predictably make the awarded do greater things. Yet, there would be cases where the affirmations generously given would not result in a much greater work performance. It would seem important then to analyze the factors contributing to greater work success.
Besides what is said above on the importance of getting positive feedbacks on one’s performance, the worker’s academic, technical and other specific preparations would determine very considerably his high rating in work. Job training and qualifications could spell the difference in the worker’s productivity. One could never say enough in his efforts to acquire new skills or re-train in other fields in order to catch up with the ever increasing demands of modern jobs and the fast changing technology-driven professions. The worker nowadays will have to acquire more external qualifications to fit into most of the present jobs available.
Furthermore, there are also the inner qualifications which the worker should possess in order to compete with the ever growing complexity of the work and with the harsh and hurtful work environment. Having good values and attitudes would make the worker not only highly “marketable” but also greatly successful in his job. But the inner qualities of the worker’s faith in Jesus and love for Him would put him over the top.
Too fantastic to be true?
By Teresa R. Tunay, OCDS
No matter how exciting and fulfilling your work may be, you can’t escape occasional down times—moments when work gets to be simply b-o-r-i-n-g! It’s a job-related malady whose symptoms are: inexplicable fatigue; irritability with co-workers; short patience or temper; low productivity or creativity level; strong tendency to be anti-social; a hovering desire to quit working; almost total loss of interest in meeting challenges; etc. There’s really nothing wrong with the workplace or your co-workers and yet everything seems to be wrong for you!
Perhaps some people are just more sensitive to such dry times than others, thus they feel it more often or more intensely. And if some people don’t go through such down times at all, maybe it’s because they’re very good at amusing themselves so that boredom hardly gets in the way of work. In order that it may not daunt us some of us try to dismiss it with either “Nagme-menopause na siguro!” or “Ay, midlife crisis lang yan!” Companies that know better invest in measures that prevent such dangerous personal crises in their workers by installing periodic recreational programs or activities for employees, such as sports fests and tournaments or outings.
There is, however, a way out of such a feeling of stagnation that any worker, whatever his or her situation, can utilize independent of external help and without side effects: believing in the truth of Jesus’ words, like those in today’s gospel. If we know Him we’ll also know the Father. If we believe in His works, we can even do greater ones. Unbelievable? Senseless God-talk? Too fantastic to be true? Plain corny? Why not be brave and try it? Befriend Jesus, and do His bidding. What do you lose—it’s for free! It’s a mystery, so embrace it, live it. Only cowards shun mysteries. Mine His words—and strike it rich! Game ka na ba?
RWS 281 for April 13, 2008, 4th Sunday in Easter
Gospel: John 10: 1-10
“10 …I came so that they might have life and have it more abundantly.”
Working mother
By Bishop Precioso D. Cantillas, SDB, DD
The words of Jesus in verse 10 of the tenth chapter of the Gospel of John were my inspiration to write the phrase at the tombstone of my mother’s resting place: “She gave her life that we may live”. Nanay Deling, as we, her children fondly called her, worked so hard in order to augment the income to support our large family. She would do a variety of jobs from menial ones, such as buying vegetables from village farmers and selling them at the city market, to some top-level ones like managing a small scale RTW (ready-to-wear) garment factory. She was a very hard working mother who never tired spending her time and energy for us, giving us not only the physical nourishment but above all the moral and spiritual formation we most needed. She was not only the medium for our physical and human life but she was also instrumental for the development of our “more abundant” life—the emotional, psychological, social, moral and spiritual aspects of life.
Moreover, my mother gave also her time and energy for our neighbors who needed help. She would spend time to assist some of those giving birth; she was always ready to lead the prayers for the dead, and to serve as nurse in administering medicines to some sick people in the remote places of our village. While she was not a professional midwife, or pastor/minister, or nurse, she did those jobs with skill and competence and, as I observed in the many occasions I was with her, doing them with great faith and love for God and with kindness and care for those she served. I have seen how those whom she served were greatly satisfied; in a sense, they received “abundant life” (healing, some inner peace and satisfaction) through the work my mother did for them. I guess, it was her way of trying to imitate the Great Worker—Jesus.
RWS 280 April 6, 2008, 3rd Sunday of Easter
Gospel: Luke 24:13-35
25 And he said to them, "… How slow of heart to believe all that the prophets spoke!
26 Was it not necessary that the Messiah should suffer
these things and enter into his glory?"
Suffering and work
By Bishop Precioso D. Cantillas, SDB, DD
Jesus explained to His disciples that the “Messiah should suffer” in carrying out his mission; and, that it is a “Suffering Servant” who would set God’s chosen people free from all kinds of slavery. This was something so different from what the people in Jesus’ time, including His disciples, expected. They were waiting for some triumphant and majestic king who would vanquish all their oppressors and would provide them freely with “milk and honey”. So Jesus showed by words and deeds and by His very life and death that the reality of suffering is part and parcel of life and work here on earth; but also that this necessary evil could be the source of one’s happiness and peace.
It is certainly our experience, too, that suffering is necessarily part of our life at work. We cannot have things done just by saying a wish or striking the air with a magic wand. We have to sweat it out in order to produce things; squeeze out our minds to plan the production or manufacturing system, and the whole complex of business and industry in order to supply the ever growing demands of people for goods and services. Suffering in all its kinds and forms is an indispensable investment in the business of work.
Some workers would grudgingly bear the pains and burdens of their work all their life and even become bitter about it and about everything. Some would rationalize the harsh realities in the workplace and try to cope with it, accept reality and live with it rather peacefully. Those who believe in Christ would feel the presence of their suffering Lord and be inspired to bear every pain and suffering at work. Uniting themselves with the Messiah, and lovingly suffering with Him would make work not only gainful materially but also and most importantly spiritually redeeming.
Foretaste of His glory
By Teresa R. Tunay, OCDS
Occasionally, at work, a dark horse would rise to save the day for the company. One such dark horse is Mang Goring, messenger, collector and all-around errand man for a multi-national company. He’s not the garrulous type like one VP’s driver who always has something to say about everything, but one day Mang Goring made a comment about the performance of Roman, a bright newcomer whom the president had trusted so much. Coming from a good family and educated abroad, Roman’s credentials were impressive, his person was affable, and his approach to work was innovative and effective.
Then, before a year was over, Roman vanished. The president was in shock and the whole company was mute with disbelief—it was discovered that Roman had ran away with millions of the company’s money expertly siphoned off to his secret bank accounts. Mang Goring’s casual comment about Roman proved to be an unheeded warning—he turned out to be the prophet no one heard.
Jesus in today’s gospel mentions those who are “… slow of heart to believe all that the prophets spoke!” As we can see, then as now, people do not automatically open their ears to prophets. All the more now, in our time, when people would rather listen to idols. And our idols these days, more often than not, are the “with it” people—smart, gregarious, driven, articulate achievers with PhDs tailing their names—unlike Mang Goring, an undergraduate from some obscure high school in the Visayas. There are many Mang Gorings in our midst, dark horses who are not only unnoticed but who also suffer in silence, yet they are at peace and grateful for their lot. Believing that Christ is with them in their suffering, they are already blessed with a foretaste of His glory.