Sunday, November 5, 2017

Brotherhood and Fraternities

+ RWS 780 November 5, 2017   /   31st Sunday in Ordinary Time

Gospel: Matthew 23: 1-12
“…you are all brothers…you have but one Father in heaven”
Brotherhood
By Bishop Precioso D. Cantillas, SDB, DD
Jesus reveals to us that we are all brothers since we have one Father in heaven. If we believe in this, then we should look at one another in the spirit of brotherhood. Brothers, consider each other with love and respect; they support one another and do a lot of things for each other. A brother would even sacrifice himself for the good and welfare of the other/s whom he considers as coming from the same origin either by blood or by faith. I remember my elder brother who worked in a bank and sent his salary for my sisters to go to college and became professionals. Several similar situations abound in many Filipino families.
Believing in what Jesus said, we could also do our work for the good and welfare of others whom we consider as our brothers in the faith. We may not be able to give our salaries for other people who are not our siblings, but, the dedication and wholehearted efforts we spend on performing our jobs may be done in view of the good that others may benefit from our work. The products and services that result from our work that is done with our best efforts will certainly affect positively others. When a worker does his job for money, he would not perform his task as well as when he is aware that he does it for a brother or sister he holds dear to himself. When the worker imbibes the Christian sense of brotherhood, then he also establishes in the work place and among his co-workers a family. Thus, a spirit of love, respect, cooperation among workers would reign in the work place, and the heavenly Father, though unseen, will certainly be present. 
Brotherhood in fraternities
By Teresa R. Tunay, OCDS
      The title of the reflection above, “Brotherhood” brings to mind “fraternity”, and by association moves me to re-examine the idea of brotherhood in today’s fraternities.  Still piping hot in the current headlines is the death last month of one neophyte during initiation rites which involved hazing.  One cannot simply look the other way when a young man his parents had the highest hopes for is now dead due to senseless violence done in the name of “brotherhood.”
      All families—not just those with sons in fraternities—should seriously question the validity of such organizations that claim to promote brotherhood and yet use hateful standards in accepting members.  The problem of hazing in fraternities has been with us for decades, coming into focus only when an initiate dies, and then the case usually gets buried along with the victim.  Nobody seems to learn.
      We who merely follow the news may know nothing of the law in this case, but we do have common sense and conscience—without any legal sophistication we know that some frat “brothers” must own responsibility for the death of a “brother.”  It seems ironic that the Aegis Juris fraternity members—young men studying to become lawyers in the futureare already having an early OJT, applying their legalistic skills and going around the law with their lawyers in order to escape blame. 
     Families should also ask themselves why their sons seek to belong in such exclusive  fraternities—don’t they feel they already belong in a loving family?  A family that recognizes the Creator as the Father of all teaches its children the sense of brotherhood that Jesus speaks of: we need not feel superior to others because we are all brothers, embraced by the Father’s love.


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